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Sign up below to the Free Online Zoom Guided Ritual – at 10am on February 14, 2026 with Leila Li and her beloved partner Ralf, who is also an experienced Facilitator, a well-known Psychotherapist and Lead Teacher at NARM – Embodied Trauma Healing Institute.
Each month we gather for a FREE Guided Ritual rooted in Embodiment, Tantra, Shamanic Rituals, Plant Medicines and Truth. These rituals help you reconnect with your body, awaken your emotions safely, and soften into deeper sacred presence and remembering what truly matters behind all the noises. Join us!
LOVE Ritual – A Valentine’s Ritual for All Lovers of Life
(Free, Online, Live, with Leila Li & Ralf Marzen)
A Valentine’s Ritual (and Gift) for the Beloved within — and for the love shared with another.
February 14th — the day of Love (Valentine’s Day), and also my birthday — and I feel so excited and honoured to invite all your lovers of LIFE to celebrate this day together. To celebrate LOVE together – through a free, live, online LOVE Ritual – a love journey from within.
This gathering is very dear to our hearts.
For the first time, I will be showing up together with my beloved partner, Ralf Marzen, who is also a great facilitator and teacher in the awakening spaces, to share our transmission as well to co-create a Ritual in devotion to Love — not only the love between two people, but the Love that lives within us, moves through us, and connects us all. To also send our prayers to this world together.
Deeply inspired by Rumi, the Sufi hearts, and the Beloved that whispers through all of life, we come together as Lovers, as Companions on this path. What we share arises from our lived life journey, our sacred union, and our deepest heart desire to bring more love to more people.
This ritual is for all Lovers of Life.
You are welcome whether you are single or partnered, whether you come alone or with a beloved, a friend, or simply with your own open heart. Love is not something we must seek outside — it is already here, waiting to be remembered, from within.
During this live gathering, we will:
- Share a little of our Journey and what Love is teaching us
- Guide you through a Tantric and Mystical Love Ritual
- Open a space for sharing, reflection and questions
The Ritual will unfold in two parts:
- The first part is a journey into the beloved within — self-love, presence, devotion, and inner union
- The second part invites the sharing of love with another — if you choose to do it with someone by your side. This part can also be done alone circling love back to yourself
- You will likely go back home with learning something beautiful and practical
This is for all levels. Everything is an invitation.
We offer this gathering as a prayer and a gift for Valentine’s Day — for more love, softness, and remembrance.
With love,
Leila Li & Ralf Marzen 🌹
❤️ Some Practicals:
Note: there will be no nakedness or anything explicit in the ritual.
Please check your email to receive the confirmation and a Zoom link to join. Make sure you check your spam box. If you still haven’t received the email, please contact me via welcome@leilali.com.
The Ritual will be recorded and shared afterwards with who have signed up to re-watch.
🌿 What To Bring and Prepare:
• A object that reminds you of Love
• A blindfold (optional)
• A comfortable, quiet, private space
JOIN FOR FREE IN 3 EASY STEPS:
Step 1
Sign up here
✓ Sign up for free with your name and email.
Step 2
Check you email & start preparing
✓ Once you’ve signed up, you’ll receive an email with the confirmation and recommended preparation.
Step 3
Join the live event
✓ 1 day before On January 2, you’ll receive your personal link to join.
Afterwards
Receive the recorded video
✓ After the event, you will receive the re-corded video and my invitation to move forward.
About Facilitators
LEILA LI & RALF MARZEN
Leila & Ralf are partners in life and in service, devoted to allowing Love to move through the naked truth of their Sacred Union into the wider world – choicelessly. After decades of deep inner/shadow work separately, they both humbly realised, for them the deepest part of the journey can only be mirrored, completed and shared through the form of relating.
Their work is inspired by living streams of ancient wisdom — Tantric traditions, the Sufi path of the Heart, Taoist wisdom, and Non-dual teachings, weaving with the deep understanding of the complexity of modern human experiences and our nervous systems — not as labels, but as embodied remembrance, together.
They weave the Masculine and Feminine, Linear and the Non-linear, Structure and Surrender, Light and Shadow, into a more grounded and intimate field of Loving Presence.
Leila brings a ritualistic, body-rooted, and intuitive feminine presence, shaped through ceremony, somatic bodywork, and shamanic spaces. Ralf stands from a grounded, masculine, and mystic place, with 20+ years of deep therapeutic and trauma-informed expertise, offering the transmission of clarity, truth and depth.
Together, they do NOT intend to present themselves as a ‘Look-At-Us Perfect Tantric Couple’, nor ‘We have figured it all out”, nor a destination to get you somewhere. Their humble offering is an honest transmission and a space — where intimacy, honesty, and love can be met from within, and where we can grow together in the true eye-to-eye meeting.
This space welcomes you exactly as you are: whether you come alone, as a single, a couple, or in any relational form. Beyond any roles and identities, Leila & Ralf feel honoured to meet you in the shared remembering about love, and the divine love that wants to move through all of us.
Check us out:
Leila: http://www.leilali.com
Ralf: http://www.embodied-trauma-healing.com
LEILA LI & RALF MARZEN
Leila & Ralf are partners in life and in service, devoted to allowing Love to move through the naked truth of their Sacred Union into the wider world – choicelessly. After decades of deep inner/shadow work separately, they both humbly realised, for them the deepest part of the journey can only be mirrored, completed and shared through the form of relating.
Their work is inspired by living streams of ancient wisdom — Tantric traditions, the Sufi path of the Heart, Taoist wisdom, and Non-dual teachings, weaving with the deep understanding of the complexity of modern human experiences and our nervous systems — not as labels, but as embodied remembrance, together.
They weave the Masculine and Feminine, Linear and the Non-linear, Structure and Surrender, Light and Shadow, into a more grounded and intimate field of Loving Presence.
Leila brings a ritualistic, body-rooted, and intuitive feminine presence, shaped through ceremony, somatic bodywork, and shamanic spaces. Ralf stands from a grounded, masculine, and mystic place, with 20+ years of deep therapeutic and trauma-informed expertise, offering the transmission of clarity, truth and depth.
Together, they do NOT intend to present themselves as a ‘Look-At-Us Perfect Tantric Couple’, nor ‘We have figured it all out”, nor a destination to get you somewhere. Their humble offering is an honest transmission and a space — where intimacy, honesty, and love can be met from within, and where we can grow together in the true eye-to-eye meeting.
This space welcomes you exactly as you are: whether you come alone, as a single, a couple, or in any relational form. Beyond any roles and identities, Leila & Ralf feel honoured to meet you in the shared remembering about love, and the divine love that wants to move through all of us.
Check us out:
Leila: http://www.leilali.com
Ralf: http://www.embodied-trauma-healing.com
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Temple of Remembering – Heart of The Beloved
(A Tantric Gathering in Amsterdam)
Location: In the beautiful nature area (15 mins from Amsterdam)
Time: 14.30 – 23.00 CET, Sunday, March 15, 2026
A night of human warmth, ancient heart rituals & the sacredness of connection.
There is something so tender and beautiful about the heart. It remembers even when we forget. It keeps opening even when we try to protect it. And at some point, all of us long for a place where our heart can simply be held — gently, honestly, lovingly, without masks.
On Sunday, March 15th, we gather for the next portal of the Temple of Remembering — through the Heart – the human heart, the divine heart, and the mysterious place where the two meet. A space to anchor in the heart.
This time, we will meet, connect and remember even deeper – inviting us to return to the warmth of our chest, to the innocence of our heart, to the sweetness of presence, and to the courage it takes to truly feel and be alive as a human being in this messy world right now.
We gather as we are — hopeful, tired, curious, longing, tender — and co-create and step into a space together where nothing needs to be performed or perfect. Where the heart is not pushed to open, but simply invited to breathe again, together.
Other Free Resources, Rituals and Online Courses
Free Monthly Guided Rituals
A Zoom live, heart-opening and seasonal ritual every month — free, open to all, into daily life.
Each month we gather for a guided ritual rooted in embodiment, breath, beauty, and inner truth. These rituals help you reconnect with your body, awaken your emotions safely, and soften into deeper sacred presence. To help you remember what truly matters behind all the noises.
Themes include:
Ancient Tea Ceremony and Meditation
The Daily Ritual of Remembering – 10 Rituals
5 Rituals to awaken Your Eros & Aliveness
The Art of Sacred Self-Touch and Love
Creating Your Home Temple — Everyday Ceremonies for Presence
The Shadow as Ally – Embodying Your Hidden Self
And more…
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→ Online in Zoom and IG
Free Telegram Q&A Community
This space is simple: a living circle for real questions, real curiosity, and your tantra and related questions being answered.
This group is FREE, open, and alive — a space for learning together, reflection, and connection. To begin, Wave & Leila (Embodied Change) are holding this container and they hold more than two decades of training in Eastern and Western Esoteric, Tantric and Shamanic traditions. Over the time with the growth of the community, we will invite other gifted facilitators to join as well.
✨ How it works:
1. What are you curious about? What question, if answered, could make a real difference to your life? — Go ahead and post your question.
2. Every Wednesday, we will pick 3 questions — and answer with a voice note or message within 48 hours. You can ask here publicly or privately.
3. Once a month, we’ll host a Community Live Call to go deeper into what’s most alive for us all, in embodied rituals, sharing, etc.
→ Online in Telegram
Courses and Other Resources
Finally we are launching our ‘Marketing For Conscious Creators course’ after 2 years of preparation soon in the New Year 2026!
For those who want to bring out your personal branding, conscious projects and businesses to this world, more authentically and powerfully, without selling our soul. We weave Marketing and Strategic Consulting together with Spirituality, Embodied Wisdom, and Heart/Soul work to help your sacred work blossom in integrity and your truth. In an online course or 1:1.
Supported by my 10 years high-level professional marketing and management experiences with some of the top companies and individuals in their fields, as well a Masters degree in Business and Marketing from Edinburgh University. Plus a MBA and another 15 years of track record of marketing by co-creator Aaron.
→ Online from the below site
TESTIMONIALS
“What an intense sensation for my first temple. I felt so free, so safe. So held. Truly a very special and sensual experience with these two beautiful women who are very powerful in their guidance.”
— Sanne
“Deze plek wordt met passie en liefde gecreëerd”
— Lotte
“As usual, a beautiful experience of expression in a safe and welcoming environment. Leila and Lya’s energy are absolutely amazing and it’s always an absolute pleasure to share the space with them.”
— Oliver
“Safe, open, deep connections and great vibes!”
— David
“Absolutely loved it. Beautiful people, beautiful vibes.”
— Simone
“Sacred Blue Lotus Immersion – een magische reis naar binnen. Gisteren mocht ik deelnemen aan de Sacred Blue Lotus Immersion en wat een bijzondere ervaring was dat! De dag begon met een betoverende thee ceremonie, geleid door Leila en Araliya, waarin woord en muziek naadloos samensmolten. Hun energie en aanwezigheid creëerden meteen een veilige en warme setting waarin ik volledig kon ontspannen. De ademhalingsoefeningen en Yoga-sessies waren prachtig afgestemd op de intentie van de dag en hielpen me om dieper in verbinding te komen met mezelf. Elke stap voelde als een uitnodiging om los te laten en te ontvangen. Het gebruik van de Sacred Blue Lotus maakte alles extra magisch. Dit smaakt absoluut naar meer – ik kom de volgende keer zeker weer!”
— Chris
“Wonderfull experience. The tea ceremony by Leila was serene and heart opening and a wonderful preparation to the meditation session afterwards by DJ Leela. I was able to release a lot of tension and the safe container they created enabled me to surrender fully. Wonderfull music and setting. Highly recommended!”
— Marc
“I had a wonderful experience at Leila’s ceremony. Their practices complement each other nicely, allowing you to connect deeper to your senses and feelings. Leila was a very caring and gentle space owner, I am grateful for this journey we’ve experienced together”
— Anna
“This was my first experience with tantra, and I feel grateful for the insights and discoveries I gained. I learned a lot about myself and my sensuality. I am also impressed how the facilitators created a safe space and container where everyone was welcome. Thanks so much, Wave and Leila!”
— Nadiem
“Voor mij was het een mooie diep gaande ervaring die zeer waardevol is gebleken. Daar naar heb ik geweldige mensen ontmoet. Ik kan niet anders zeggen dat ik dankbaar ben.”
— Peter
“It was great!! Very safe, open, vulnerable and fun. Would definitively come again :)”
— Daan
“Great, as all of the events they organise :)”
— Lara
“Een hele fijne theeceremonie en QiGong practice. In de natuur, verbonden, vertragen, precies wat ik nodig had deze mooie zondag. De kinderen waren ook welkom wat erg fijn was, dankjewel!”
— Mellany
“I gave this experience to my friend as a birthday gift. We both live in Amsterdam and I was looking for something special – and found it. I recommend this to anyone who is ready to enter their welcoming place with an open mind and dive into ecstatic music while painting by putting emotions and feelings on paper. I had no particular expectations, but I was impressed how wholesome the experience felt. Thanks Leila & Bart, for your guidance, time and being!”
— Linda
“Very usefull and educational. I appreciate the effort that the speakers and the organization put into the summit.”
— Mandy
“Bijzonder! Fijne gastvrije mensen. Mooie zachte ervaring. Wel wat veel onderwerpen wellicht in twee uur. Ik had alleen thee ceremonie ook fijn gevonden. Tegelijkertijd heb ik nu wel ook geproefd aan andere dingen letterlijk en figuurlijk. Dankjewel voor het organiseren!”
— Margriet
“Such a lovely experience to dance in nature while enjoying a musical journey <3”
— Ariana
Other Offerings
The Way of Remembering: A 3-Month Immersive Journey
Each month invites a new portal — Body, Heart, Soul — to return you to what’s real and what truly matters. Through In-person Sessions, Guided Online Practices & Rituals and Creative Soul Work, you’ll root deeper into your essence, soften into feeling, and awaken the beauty of being. You will likely feel less need to perform or compare, and instead more life force energy flowing to help co-create with life and manifest what you truly want. I am giving everything I have got into this immersive journey.
→ Private intimate journeys (recommended in-person+online, can also be online only)
1:1 Deep Dive Journeys
I offer tailored private sessions that combine deep presence, with options of Tantric Bodywork & Dearmouring, Plant Medicine Journeys, Rituals and Embodiment. We move with what is here — grief, eros, tenderness, shadow, longing, joy — all of it is welcome including Sexual/Life Force energy. This is not about fixing. It’s about remembering. Landing in the truth of your soul through the wisdom of your body, through the guidance of the intelligence/the unknown.
Each session includes a preparation and an integration video calls, can be paired with extra online coaching to deep dive into more complex intentions and life challenges.
→ In-person in Amsterdam or through Online Coaching
Sacred Spaces & Ceremonies
I co-create and hold sacred spaces rooted in reverence, humility, and truth. These regular gatherings (e.g. Tantric Temple Gathering, Microdosing Ceremonies, Microdosing Party, Ancient Tea and Blue Lotus Ceremonies) are ecstatic, elemental, feminine, and ancient — blending ritual, movements, prayer, silence, arts and sacred touch. It’s in a group setting yet highly personal. For individuals or intimate groups ready to meet life as a ceremony.
I also occasionally organise events, retreats or trainings (e.g. annual Tantric Bodywork Training and medicine retreats) for experienced teachers that I trust and want to learn from. As well to bring their beautiful work more out to this world.
→ In-person around Amsterdam (based) and occasionally Europe
Soulful Expression & Marketing
For those who want to bring out your personal branding, conscious projects and businesses to this world, more authentically and powerfully, without selling our soul. We weave Marketing and Strategic Consulting together with Spirituality, Embodied Wisdom, and Heart/Soul work to help your sacred work blossom in integrity and your truth. In a 1:1 consulting form or online course.
Supported by my 10 years high-level professional marketing and management experiences with some of the top companies and individuals in their fields, as well a Masters degree in Business and Marketing from Edinburgh University.
→ 1:1 online consulting and group course (Marketing For Conscious Creators).
Join newsletter list to stay updated and connected for inspiration, future events, offerings and initiatives, in collaboration with other creators!
ABOUT ME
– Born in a Traditional Chinese Medicine Family, with a lineage/descendants of Confucius. Yet grew up humbly in an ordinary and modern environment. A devotee for the ancient wisdom of the Tao – The Way of Nature. The Life Force.
– It took me a decade of inner, shadow work to re-root into my being, and to de-condition my sexual/life force/creative energy and keep on cracking my heart open, as my main channels for service.
-I am in a sacred union with my beloved partner, the best thing that ever happen to me, as a divine confirmation and a sign of totality, that comes with great responsibility and service.
– I love being a woman. I love being able to drop into my deep feminine more when I feel safe. It’s an ancient and urgent calling for me to serve the harmony of sacred union, and to re-build trust and balance in between the Masculine and Feminine, individually and collectively.
– I have been learning from various teachers across Spirituality, Shamanism, Tantric, Trauma-informed practices (e.g. Vipassana, ISTA mystery school, Tantric Bodywork Trainings, Shamanic medicines, Metamorphosis, Fungi Academy, NARM trauma healing…) I am also an organiser to bring teachers I trust to more people.
– Over the last five years, I have organised a dozen week-long retreats/trainings, more than a hundred ceremonies and events across Amsterdam and Europe, and many 1:1 sessions/journeys, and supported thousands of beings in different stages of their journeys.
– I have a masters degree from Edinburgh University with 10+ years high-level professional marketing experience helping many purpose-driven businesses and individuals grow consciously through marketing and business consulting, without selling their souls.
– I am passionate about connecting a global community of Conscious Creators, bridging through embodiment and co-creation to foster collective change and awakening. Co-founder of the course ‘Marketing for Conscious Creators‘ and the world first ‘Online Summit for ‘Psychedelics and Sexuality’.
– I am just another human being who starts to remember, trying to live the best life I can and to be as real and loving as I can, and to support others in the ways that I can. No more, no less.
You can often find me guiding journeys and facilitating groups.
I call myself a ‘Life Artist’ seeing Art is Healing and Life as a Ceremony.
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It’s hard with only written words, we have to both feel it. Schedule a free discovery call with me or send me a message, to feel if there’s connection or potential to support you on your own path.
I am open to collaborations and/or simply exchange of ideas and visions, drop me a message here or Whatsapp/Regular +31613596848.
